If you are looking for a perfect example of compassionate service, look no further than the volunteers at Marion’s Angel Depot. Linda Green, Kirsten Koch and Laura Young work together to serve over 100 children in foster care and parents by running the Depot for Angels’ Arms. 

This 4,000 square foot warehouse serves as a donation distribution center where our foster families pick up much needed goods including food, toiletries, hygiene products, laundry detergent diapers, etc. The Depot opened in March of 2021, after the covid year of 2020 made it very clear that the foster families needed additional help. And, due to rising grocery prices, the need for assistance is greater than ever. 

Linda, Kirsten and Laura, the Depot Angels, saw the need and realized that running the Depot was pulling employees away from their jobs at the office. They stepped in, assessed the situation, figured out exactly how to run the Depot to assist the foster families, made suggestions, and took over the entire operation!

Because of their dedication and selflessness, Linda, Kirsten and Laura were recently recognized by the Crestwood-Sunset Hills Kiwanis Club with the Jimmy Fidler Service Award. It is a fitting recognition for women who devote themselves to Angels’ Arms foster families by sharing their skills, time and love for the families. 

Angels’ Arms staff and board members joined in congratulating Linda, Laura and Kirsten at the Awards Luncheon.

Service With a Smile

As Angels’ Arms Founder Bess Wilfong explained, “They are always ready to serve, and will do whatever it takes to make life better for our families. They organize. They unpack. They go through all of the food and mark it with expiration dates. They come to the warehouse every week to sort, clean, and set up items for the families. And they do all of this with a smile and a warm heart. Angels’ Arms would be hard pressed to find volunteers who are so completely dedicated to serving our foster families.”

Going the extra mile is part of everything they do. Linda, Kirsten and Laura shop for needed items when donations are running low, pick-up orders and donations, help parents who are shopping at the Depot by entertaining foster children, and load up the foster parent’s cars. They also come in on weekends to assist parents who can’t come by during the week. 

In addition to the love and care they show the foster parents and kids, they are adept at seeking out donations, are keenly organized, and their amazing volunteerism means that an employee doesn’t have to be hired to take care of running the Depot. 

Committed to Angels’ Arms

Kirsten became involved in the summer of 2022 when she and Laura retired from teaching. She was an adopted child and she knew the impact foster families make in the lives of children. Kirsten was looking for volunteer ideas, and since she loves to organize things, the Depot was a perfect fit. 

Laura got involved when her husband’s company, Deca Property Management, held a linen drive to share with Angels’ Arms. She learned that the Depot had recently opened and that volunteers were needed. Kids in foster care and the families have a special place in Laura’s heart. She adopted her youngest son after he was placed in foster care at one month of age. “We know the challenges and the victories with each child,” she shared. “The love, patience, flexibility, and care the parents give each day is inspiring.”

Linda learned about Angels’ Arms through the National Charity League (NCL), a mother-daughter philanthropy organization. Angels’ Arms quickly became her family’s favorite. She was involved with Angels’ Arms for many years, but took some time off to care for her parents. After the pandemic, she learned about the Depot. “It turned out to be a perfect fit for me,” she said. “I love organizing and have also made new friends along the way!”

A Typical Day and a Vital Resource

If there is such a thing as “a typical day,” it starts with any donations that have come in. They sort donations, stock the shelves and put expiration dates on items if needed. They assist parents shopping and advise the office about needed items in case anyone is setting up a donation drive. Kirsten noted, “Much like teaching elementary school, you never know what you will be walking into at the Depot.”

The warehouse is a vital resource for Angels’ Arms families. Most of our families care for up to six children, so grocery bills can be overwhelming. The warehouse helps bridge the gap and ease financial strain. Additionally, the warehouse serves as a gathering place for foster parents, where they can share experiences, exchange parenting advice and support one another.

As Linda explains, “Every foster parent who visits the warehouse is incredibly grateful for the support it provides. They couldn’t be more appreciative of the essentials they receive, and it’s heartwarming to see their excitement over even the simplest necessities. Laundry detergent, for example, is always in high demand—imagine doing laundry for six kids! 

“They also love discovering new items in stock and often express how much their children will appreciate them. One of the most popular features of the warehouse is a special shelf in the back where parents can select a birthday gift for their child during their birthday month—it’s always a big hit!”

For these three ladies, serving the foster families is the best part of volunteering. They love meeting the foster parents and children. “It’s truly heartwarming to see the joy on parents’ faces when they walk into a well-stocked warehouse,” said Laura. “Occasionally, we receive special items beyond groceries and essential supplies. It is amazing to see how excited the kids are to receive something that makes them feel special.” 

Kirsten enjoys, “when a whole family comes in! I love catching up with the families on how things are going and what we can do to help support them at the warehouse. The parents are amazing angels.”

In running the Depot, these ladies are overjoyed to serve as a small resource the parents can utilize to help their foster families. As Kirsten explained, “The parents are in no way compensated for all they do and give, so it is nice that they can come in and get resources for free.”

The Power of Love and Service to Others

In volunteering their time, this trio of Depot Angels share their talents for organizing and running the “store,” make themselves available to the parents in emergencies – even if it’s not a regularly scheduled day, listen with love and compassion when the parents need someone to talk to, and make sure essential supplies and groceries are available. They put the Kiwanis Jimmy Fidler Award into action, and they truly make a significant difference in the lives of every foster family they touch. Linda, Kirsten and Laura are a testament to the power of love and service to others. 

… 4,000 Square Feet of “Oh, we really need that!”

Moving from a two-car garage to a warehouse filled with everyday essentials has allowed Angels’ Arms to assist foster families with on-going needs.

Marion’s Angel Depot opened in December 2020. This 4,000 square foot warehouse serves as a donation and distribution center for almost everything Angels’ Arms families need to keep their households running smoothly.

Part of Angels’ Arms mission is to engage the community in supporting foster families. As Founder and Executive Director Bess Wilfong noted, “From the time we founded Angels’ Arms, people in the community have been stepping up with unbelievable support. A lot of that support comes in through donated items. With the help of the community, we can ensure that the foster parents have what they need to care for the children who enter their homes.”

“Our distribution center was originally the garage at our first home, which is now the Angels’ Arms office,” explained Maria Rehkember, Development and Marketing Manager. “It was the hub for families to get essential supplies. But it also held all our maintenance tools, fall event decor, office supplies, basket making supplies, and more. We were creative, using every square inch from top to bottom, but the parents couldn’t even see everything that we had for them. The warehouse is a wonderful improvement.”

Ashley Cook is the Outreach Coordinator who runs and oversees Marion’s Angel Depot. She sees first hand the benefits the families derive from having a warehouse of supplies. “This is the primary distribution area for our families. They usually come in twice a month for basic necessities such as toiletries, cereal, non-perishable items, TP, laundry detergent, toothpaste, toothbrushes and soap. These are a constant need for our foster parents. Although we don’t provide for all their needs, these donations greatly assist the parents.”

Where does it all come from? Ashley explained, “Schools and companies host drives, individuals collect items, many people order from our Amazon wish list. The parents are like kids in a candy store. It’s amazing to them that people give them so much help. They actually have options, and it’s free. They never know what they will find just shopping the aisles in the Depot. And it has been a huge help throughout the pandemic. Our community is just so generous.”

Consider this:

In 2021, schools, churches, business and other organizations hosted 43 drives and collections. Angels’ Arms received: 1,902 boxes of cereal, 1,493 canned goods, 3,000+ paper goods items, 8,400 diapers, and more. Our parents utilized the warehouse over 100 times. These donations fill a critical need for our families.

How did the warehouse come about?

The staff and the families saw the need for a warehouse years ago, but it took a generous donation from Marion Bradford to make it a reality. Marion became involved with Angles’ Arms when she went to a dinner auction in 2002. She has been volunteering since that time.

Marion has always been generous with her time and donations. “I decided I wanted to give to Angels’ Arms, but not only after I died. Why should I wait until I was gone? I wanted to put my dreams into action so I could actually see the outcomes, and the joy it could bring.”

Her generous donation became the foundation for making the warehouse a reality. Seeing the warehouse fully stocked, Marion realized “how vital it is to have  a place for our foster families to get all the supplies they need in one central location. It’s a friendly and warm atmosphere, and our parents can easily see and feel the love and care the community put into those donations.”

As far as the warehouse being named Marion’s Angel Depot, “I don’t think my smile could be any bigger or my heart feel any fuller. It is such an honor.”

Filling Needs at the Holidays and Throughout the Year

In the weeks leading up to Christmas, the Depot saw a lot of traffic. Ashley noted, “People are so incredibly generous, but especially so during the holidays.” Shelves and tables were filled with boxes and wrapped packages as part of the Adopt-a-Family program. “It was a blessing to have a place to store and organize all the gifts and supplies coming in.”

The foster parents were equally thrilled. “This is a big help and benefit to my family,” said Brittany Jewett, a single mom with five foster children. It is wonderful to go in a couple times a month and pick up the things we really need.” For Brittany and family, that includes Pull Ups and wipes for the young ones, and snacks for school for the older children.

“It’s also more accessible,” added Brittany, who teaches full-time. “Ashley has an order form, so I can give her the order in advance. She pulls out what I need and has it ready when I stop by after work. It’s wonderful to have the boxes ready to go. I can swoop them up into my car and I don’t even have to get the kids out.

 “Ashley always asks the parents if there’s anything we don’t have that we need, and she will try to get that for the next round of donations. It’s amazing that we can stop by and pick up extra items, like toothbrushes, toothpaste, deodorant, face masks – even paper plates and TP. It’s great to have this on hand when I get new foster kids. Lots of times they come to my home with almost nothing.”

Kim Singletonis part of the extended Angels’ Arms family. She doesn’t live in one of our homes, but benefits from the support the Angels’ Arms community provides.

Kim describes her household as “pretty full! I have two children of my own and usually have three or four foster children, also. The Depot helps us by providing almost anything we need – extra food, bedding, necessities, toiletries, everything.  I broke down and cried at Christmas, there was a shelf of gifts, just for us, already wrapped for the kids. Angels’ Arms is a great organization. When I say it is a blessing that they are there, it is truly, truly a blessing.”

Susan Benwell, Angels’ Arms 2019 Volunteer of the Year, assisted families when supplies were stored in the garage. “It was such a small space, trying to house hardware, supplies for the families, event supplies, and a big conference table that was used as an intake table and a work table. The Depot lets us separate and sort things better. It has made a huge impact on our families.”

The holidays were a busy time. Susan stated, “Christmas was a wonderful blur. It is so beautiful to see so many people stepping forward, even kids, to help our foster kids. The biggest thing I have seen volunteering here is how so many people come together and contribute to the families. Sometimes it’s a little bit, sometimes a lot. A whole bunch of people, coming together to make a difference for our families.”

In all, 12 families living in Angels’ Arms homes as well as 10 extended foster families benefit from the tremendous generosity of the community. These 22 dedicated foster families are extremely grateful for the assistance they receive.

As Marion stated, “ It is a great feeling to work with so many wonderful people, from the donors to the staff to the parents. Everyone is making a difference in the lives of each child Angels’ Arms touches.”

Are you interested in helping stock the shelves at Marion’s Angel Depot?

Individuals and groups are more than welcome to host a collection for Angels’ Arms. Although the Depot is well stocked around the holidays, the supplies get lower in the spring and summer.

Contact Ashley at ashley@angelsarms.org or 314-842-8400, to host a collection or if you need more information.

The resources and support provided by the community helps raise the standard of care for foster children. Every donation touches the life – and the heart – of a child.